My hookup didn’t get hard.. /u/Medium-Solution-5671 Sex

I (f19) had a hookup (M23). I met him at his house and we were watching tv then he asked me if I wanted a massage. I said yes and we proceeded and my clothes ended up off. We both knew what it was. But as he was massaging me I thought it was cool but he was not hard at all. Straight gummy. He literally tried doing it on soft, he didn’t know how to finger or unhook a bra.

I even tried switching it over and giving him a blowjob but he never got hard….

I feel like it had something to do with me not shaving well, but I did pretty damn well and I’m just blaming myself… But I’m thinking he was a virgin. I just want to know what are the possibilities it can be that he didn’t get hard.

I (f19) had a hookup (M23). I met him at his house and we were watching tv then he asked me if I wanted a massage. I said yes and we proceeded and my clothes ended up off. We both knew what it was. But as he was massaging me I thought it was cool but he was not hard at all. Straight gummy. He literally tried doing it on soft, he didn’t know how to finger or unhook a bra.

I even tried switching it over and giving him a blowjob but he never got hard….

I feel like it had something to do with me not shaving well, but I did pretty damn well and I’m just blaming myself… But I’m thinking he was a virgin. I just want to know what are the possibilities it can be that he didn’t get hard.