I have been with my husband for over 19 years and it took almost 17 years to FINALLY try anal for the first time. LOL! He just wasn’t really interested so never cared to try.. I gave hints and asked for it for SO LONG and finally one day while we were having sex I just asked him to put it in my ass.. and he did.. and it was glorious! It is now a fundamental part of my spank bank. LOL
Unfortunately, that wasn’t quite the anal exploration awakening for us that I hoped it would be. I am not sure why but we still do not do it as much as I would like. We haven’t explored it further and it makes me really sad. I bought toys and plugs to include in our sex life and they have gone nearly unused. In an attempt for him to understand how much I want it to be a part of our regular sex life, I confessed to him that I included anal pleasure in my masturbation even from a very young age (just a finger, nothing crazy). It was kind of embarrassing to admit, but it felt incredibly good to tell him. He was kind of surprised but it also really made him understand that it is something I really want. I also confessed that I really enjoy DP porn. LOLOL So he is fully aware now and he even mentioned exploring that with toys with me! I love him so much.
I still wish he would let me peg him but I am ok with that one remaining a fantasy. LOLOL
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r/sex I have been with my husband for over 19 years and it took almost 17 years to FINALLY try anal for the first time. LOL! He just wasn’t really interested so never cared to try.. I gave hints and asked for it for SO LONG and finally one day while we were having sex I just asked him to put it in my ass.. and he did.. and it was glorious! It is now a fundamental part of my spank bank. LOL Unfortunately, that wasn’t quite the anal exploration awakening for us that I hoped it would be. I am not sure why but we still do not do it as much as I would like. We haven’t explored it further and it makes me really sad. I bought toys and plugs to include in our sex life and they have gone nearly unused. In an attempt for him to understand how much I want it to be a part of our regular sex life, I confessed to him that I included anal pleasure in my masturbation even from a very young age (just a finger, nothing crazy). It was kind of embarrassing to admit, but it felt incredibly good to tell him. He was kind of surprised but it also really made him understand that it is something I really want. I also confessed that I really enjoy DP porn. LOLOL So he is fully aware now and he even mentioned exploring that with toys with me! I love him so much. I still wish he would let me peg him but I am ok with that one remaining a fantasy. LOLOL submitted by /u/tell_it_like_it_is23 [link] [comments]
I have been with my husband for over 19 years and it took almost 17 years to FINALLY try anal for the first time. LOL! He just wasn’t really interested so never cared to try.. I gave hints and asked for it for SO LONG and finally one day while we were having sex I just asked him to put it in my ass.. and he did.. and it was glorious! It is now a fundamental part of my spank bank. LOL
Unfortunately, that wasn’t quite the anal exploration awakening for us that I hoped it would be. I am not sure why but we still do not do it as much as I would like. We haven’t explored it further and it makes me really sad. I bought toys and plugs to include in our sex life and they have gone nearly unused. In an attempt for him to understand how much I want it to be a part of our regular sex life, I confessed to him that I included anal pleasure in my masturbation even from a very young age (just a finger, nothing crazy). It was kind of embarrassing to admit, but it felt incredibly good to tell him. He was kind of surprised but it also really made him understand that it is something I really want. I also confessed that I really enjoy DP porn. LOLOL So he is fully aware now and he even mentioned exploring that with toys with me! I love him so much.
I still wish he would let me peg him but I am ok with that one remaining a fantasy. LOLOL
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