I am seeing this guy and we have had sex every time we met, so maybe 10 times. What I find a bit strange is that except for the the first time we did it, he has no intention of exploring my body with his hands or mouth. He just kisses me and fingers me for maybe 1 minute and then goes straight to sex. My breasts and the rest of my body are somehow invisible to him. And it has always been this pattern, no variation whatsoever. Even when I push my breasts against his mouth to indicate what I want he pulls away after 10 seconds…
My first thought was that this is the way you have sex with someone you don’t really love, because it’s so focussed on the sex part and nothing else. My exes did extensive foreplay and I felt their love or adoration because they expressed it physically.
Also, he told me he has a really high body count (three-digits) when I asked him and that made me wonder even more. Because one would think that with a lot of experience you get better in bed. Or do people just become very indifferent in bed when they have had too much of it?
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r/sex I am seeing this guy and we have had sex every time we met, so maybe 10 times. What I find a bit strange is that except for the the first time we did it, he has no intention of exploring my body with his hands or mouth. He just kisses me and fingers me for maybe 1 minute and then goes straight to sex. My breasts and the rest of my body are somehow invisible to him. And it has always been this pattern, no variation whatsoever. Even when I push my breasts against his mouth to indicate what I want he pulls away after 10 seconds… My first thought was that this is the way you have sex with someone you don’t really love, because it’s so focussed on the sex part and nothing else. My exes did extensive foreplay and I felt their love or adoration because they expressed it physically. Also, he told me he has a really high body count (three-digits) when I asked him and that made me wonder even more. Because one would think that with a lot of experience you get better in bed. Or do people just become very indifferent in bed when they have had too much of it? submitted by /u/EvenNow137 [link] [comments]
I am seeing this guy and we have had sex every time we met, so maybe 10 times. What I find a bit strange is that except for the the first time we did it, he has no intention of exploring my body with his hands or mouth. He just kisses me and fingers me for maybe 1 minute and then goes straight to sex. My breasts and the rest of my body are somehow invisible to him. And it has always been this pattern, no variation whatsoever. Even when I push my breasts against his mouth to indicate what I want he pulls away after 10 seconds…
My first thought was that this is the way you have sex with someone you don’t really love, because it’s so focussed on the sex part and nothing else. My exes did extensive foreplay and I felt their love or adoration because they expressed it physically.
Also, he told me he has a really high body count (three-digits) when I asked him and that made me wonder even more. Because one would think that with a lot of experience you get better in bed. Or do people just become very indifferent in bed when they have had too much of it?
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