im 25 yr male and about 3 years ago i completely lost my sex drive. I have seen several doctors including a urologist and no-one has been able to help me. a few details:
– i do experience depression/anxiety, but i have my whole life. there were times when depression/anxiety was worse then it is now but i still had my sex drive intact. currently my depression is mild, and its mostly because of how lonely i am and im worried ill never be able to start a family.
– i do take medication, called welbutrin. ive taken this for many years and never had sexual side effects from it. i went off of it for 3 months to see if that would help, no effect. seems to be a non factor
– i dont have performance anxiety or anything like that, i had a happy and healthy relationship with my fiance that ended up crumbling due to this issue
– my testosterone level is normal according to doctors, i eat healthy and workout most days of the week
– i dont smoke or drink at all.
the issue is just a complete lack of arousal. i actually have started identifying myself as asexual because i literally dont feel anything.
im not looking for a medical diagnosis , i just need some advice for how i should handle this. i see all these happy couples walking around and it just makes me so sad that ill never have that because my body is failing me even when i take such good care of it.
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r/sex im 25 yr male and about 3 years ago i completely lost my sex drive. I have seen several doctors including a urologist and no-one has been able to help me. a few details: – i do experience depression/anxiety, but i have my whole life. there were times when depression/anxiety was worse then it is now but i still had my sex drive intact. currently my depression is mild, and its mostly because of how lonely i am and im worried ill never be able to start a family. – i do take medication, called welbutrin. ive taken this for many years and never had sexual side effects from it. i went off of it for 3 months to see if that would help, no effect. seems to be a non factor – i dont have performance anxiety or anything like that, i had a happy and healthy relationship with my fiance that ended up crumbling due to this issue – my testosterone level is normal according to doctors, i eat healthy and workout most days of the week – i dont smoke or drink at all. the issue is just a complete lack of arousal. i actually have started identifying myself as asexual because i literally dont feel anything. im not looking for a medical diagnosis , i just need some advice for how i should handle this. i see all these happy couples walking around and it just makes me so sad that ill never have that because my body is failing me even when i take such good care of it. submitted by /u/speedking_97 [link] [comments]
im 25 yr male and about 3 years ago i completely lost my sex drive. I have seen several doctors including a urologist and no-one has been able to help me. a few details:
– i do experience depression/anxiety, but i have my whole life. there were times when depression/anxiety was worse then it is now but i still had my sex drive intact. currently my depression is mild, and its mostly because of how lonely i am and im worried ill never be able to start a family.
– i do take medication, called welbutrin. ive taken this for many years and never had sexual side effects from it. i went off of it for 3 months to see if that would help, no effect. seems to be a non factor
– i dont have performance anxiety or anything like that, i had a happy and healthy relationship with my fiance that ended up crumbling due to this issue
– my testosterone level is normal according to doctors, i eat healthy and workout most days of the week
– i dont smoke or drink at all.
the issue is just a complete lack of arousal. i actually have started identifying myself as asexual because i literally dont feel anything.
im not looking for a medical diagnosis , i just need some advice for how i should handle this. i see all these happy couples walking around and it just makes me so sad that ill never have that because my body is failing me even when i take such good care of it.
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