Why do I (21F) feel so turned off of him [25M] after great sex? /u/midnight-n-me Sex

I had sex with a guy (25M) I have been dating for the first time.

The sex was amazing.

However, after sex I feel so grossed out by him. I want to pull away every time he is affectionate and I don’t feel like kissing him anymore.

I am noticing the little things, like his body hair and slight stinky breath. It is making me feel physically irritated.

I tend to lose interest after sex, especially if the guy is overly affectionate afterwards. It’s like I want to be able to pursue him, but there is nothing more to chase because it’s all in my face, and then I view him as unattractive.

What do I do? He is a great guy, and I do want to give him a chance, but I don’t know how to overcome these feelings.

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​r/sex I had sex with a guy (25M) I have been dating for the first time. The sex was amazing. However, after sex I feel so grossed out by him. I want to pull away every time he is affectionate and I don’t feel like kissing him anymore. I am noticing the little things, like his body hair and slight stinky breath. It is making me feel physically irritated. I tend to lose interest after sex, especially if the guy is overly affectionate afterwards. It’s like I want to be able to pursue him, but there is nothing more to chase because it’s all in my face, and then I view him as unattractive. What do I do? He is a great guy, and I do want to give him a chance, but I don’t know how to overcome these feelings. submitted by /u/midnight-n-me [link] [comments] 

I had sex with a guy (25M) I have been dating for the first time.

The sex was amazing.

However, after sex I feel so grossed out by him. I want to pull away every time he is affectionate and I don’t feel like kissing him anymore.

I am noticing the little things, like his body hair and slight stinky breath. It is making me feel physically irritated.

I tend to lose interest after sex, especially if the guy is overly affectionate afterwards. It’s like I want to be able to pursue him, but there is nothing more to chase because it’s all in my face, and then I view him as unattractive.

What do I do? He is a great guy, and I do want to give him a chance, but I don’t know how to overcome these feelings.

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