Lately I(m25)I’ve become really ticklish again and my sex life suffers from it. I like gentle touches and strokes while watching a movie or just laying in bed or after sex. But it’s so bad that even a light touch I jump uncontrollably and only really can sit still when we’re hugging firmly and no soft touches(the soft touches which I love normally).
Background on my ticklish/non ticklish periods.
-i’ve been very ticklish with partners until 24. People I went to bed with were within 2-6 date range and I wasn’t comfortable yet to go al the way with those people but did oral and all. I also was very low body fat.
non ticklish period: my (now ex)gf met in a party made out. Second time I saw her we watched a movie and she did the stroking and touches on /y arm and back which tickle normally alot. I was little bit ticklish but very relaxed and loved it. I also felt comfortable to go all the way with her. I also was a bit more fat, (5kg above my usual weigth for a 62kg guy. After we broke up I had situationships with 2 people (one behind the other not in the same time) and sex and I also wasn’t ticklish.
then I didn’t have sex for a while and no cuddling and now if I’m going to bed with someone I am insanely ticklish again. Also with girls that are seemingly a bit worse in the cuddling and caring compartment and don’t really know how to touch me. I’m also back to my skinny self.
Now i think it’s either the being completely comfortable with someone. Or due to my body fat fluctuations.
Anyway, I’d like to enjoy my single time as well and love to be caring and stuff also Ith one night stands and hookups but with the ticklishness I can’t. Any tips ?
Tldr: any tips on reducing ticklishness while still being able to enjoy soft and gentle touches ?
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r/sex Lately I(m25)I’ve become really ticklish again and my sex life suffers from it. I like gentle touches and strokes while watching a movie or just laying in bed or after sex. But it’s so bad that even a light touch I jump uncontrollably and only really can sit still when we’re hugging firmly and no soft touches(the soft touches which I love normally). Background on my ticklish/non ticklish periods. -i’ve been very ticklish with partners until 24. People I went to bed with were within 2-6 date range and I wasn’t comfortable yet to go al the way with those people but did oral and all. I also was very low body fat. non ticklish period: my (now ex)gf met in a party made out. Second time I saw her we watched a movie and she did the stroking and touches on /y arm and back which tickle normally alot. I was little bit ticklish but very relaxed and loved it. I also felt comfortable to go all the way with her. I also was a bit more fat, (5kg above my usual weigth for a 62kg guy. After we broke up I had situationships with 2 people (one behind the other not in the same time) and sex and I also wasn’t ticklish. then I didn’t have sex for a while and no cuddling and now if I’m going to bed with someone I am insanely ticklish again. Also with girls that are seemingly a bit worse in the cuddling and caring compartment and don’t really know how to touch me. I’m also back to my skinny self. Now i think it’s either the being completely comfortable with someone. Or due to my body fat fluctuations. Anyway, I’d like to enjoy my single time as well and love to be caring and stuff also Ith one night stands and hookups but with the ticklishness I can’t. Any tips ? Tldr: any tips on reducing ticklishness while still being able to enjoy soft and gentle touches ? submitted by /u/SnooWords92 [link] [comments]
Lately I(m25)I’ve become really ticklish again and my sex life suffers from it. I like gentle touches and strokes while watching a movie or just laying in bed or after sex. But it’s so bad that even a light touch I jump uncontrollably and only really can sit still when we’re hugging firmly and no soft touches(the soft touches which I love normally).
Background on my ticklish/non ticklish periods.
-i’ve been very ticklish with partners until 24. People I went to bed with were within 2-6 date range and I wasn’t comfortable yet to go al the way with those people but did oral and all. I also was very low body fat.
non ticklish period: my (now ex)gf met in a party made out. Second time I saw her we watched a movie and she did the stroking and touches on /y arm and back which tickle normally alot. I was little bit ticklish but very relaxed and loved it. I also felt comfortable to go all the way with her. I also was a bit more fat, (5kg above my usual weigth for a 62kg guy. After we broke up I had situationships with 2 people (one behind the other not in the same time) and sex and I also wasn’t ticklish.
then I didn’t have sex for a while and no cuddling and now if I’m going to bed with someone I am insanely ticklish again. Also with girls that are seemingly a bit worse in the cuddling and caring compartment and don’t really know how to touch me. I’m also back to my skinny self.
Now i think it’s either the being completely comfortable with someone. Or due to my body fat fluctuations.
Anyway, I’d like to enjoy my single time as well and love to be caring and stuff also Ith one night stands and hookups but with the ticklishness I can’t. Any tips ?
Tldr: any tips on reducing ticklishness while still being able to enjoy soft and gentle touches ?
submitted by /u/SnooWords92
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