My husband (32) said “go ahead, blowing is not cheating” and now regrets it /u/Random2906 Sex

The other day we were playing truth or dare, and he asked me what would i do if it was “legal” and i said i would blow someone. After that he dared me to do it which i obviously refused to.

After that he mentioned it several times and he managed to convince me that for him, “blowing is not cheating”.

Finally i did it, to some guy i met in a bar, and i told him. we had a great sex after that but after he came he was kinda upset.

I repeated it several times and he became kinda insecure. When i asked him if it was still ok he was like “yeah yeah sure!” but i think he just didn’t want to back off.

The problem is that i enjoy it a lot and i really love my husband and it will never make me love or want him any less, but im sure he is regretting it. I really can’t stop doing it and he never admits to regret what he said. im not even sure that he’s against it, what do you think i should do?

The other day we were playing truth or dare, and he asked me what would i do if it was “legal” and i said i would blow someone. After that he dared me to do it which i obviously refused to.

After that he mentioned it several times and he managed to convince me that for him, “blowing is not cheating”.

Finally i did it, to some guy i met in a bar, and i told him. we had a great sex after that but after he came he was kinda upset.

I repeated it several times and he became kinda insecure. When i asked him if it was still ok he was like “yeah yeah sure!” but i think he just didn’t want to back off.

The problem is that i enjoy it a lot and i really love my husband and it will never make me love or want him any less, but im sure he is regretting it. I really can’t stop doing it and he never admits to regret what he said. im not even sure that he’s against it, what do you think i should do?