Last night I woke up to my boyfriend sucking my boobs /u/PerceptionStrict5227 Sex

When i realized what was happening I asked him what he was doing and he just got off and said he didn’t know. I went to the restroom and was really confused on whether i should’ve said anything or pretend it didn’t happen. I knew he was horny before we went to bed, but it was late and he told me we shouldn’t do anything since he had work in the morning.

So this whole thing really shocks me. I was molested in my sleep for 5 years as a child so this is really confusing and i feel hurt.

He is so sweet and a really great boyfriend so I figured he just had a lapse in judgement. But after I went back to bed I was too scared to fall back asleep. I told him i couldn’t go back to sleep after waking up and he asked me what woke me up and I said I just had to pee, he just said okay. Now I feel betrayed and he is deciding to lie about it, if it was just an accident (you don’t just accidentally assault someone in their sleep but sometimes you make bad decisions that you regret) he would’ve confessed and apologized.

I was only asleep for maybe an hour before this all happened. And prior to falling asleep the first time he asked me to take off my underwear, which i declined because we only take them off at night to have sex. But he promised me he didn’t want to do anything since he had work in the morning, so i did. I don’t know the extent of which he touched me which makes this all worse.

This is the second time i have woken up to him sucking my boobs while i was sleeping.

Sorry if this is all over the place I just wanted to vent, I am planning on confronting him tonight after work. Wanted to post on off my chest but IK he frequents that sub.

EDIT: He is aware of my abusive past. We have discussed NOT doing sexual acts with each other when one is sleeping unless we consent before going to sleep. We are both 20. He does not have sexsomnia.

When i realized what was happening I asked him what he was doing and he just got off and said he didn’t know. I went to the restroom and was really confused on whether i should’ve said anything or pretend it didn’t happen. I knew he was horny before we went to bed, but it was late and he told me we shouldn’t do anything since he had work in the morning.

So this whole thing really shocks me. I was molested in my sleep for 5 years as a child so this is really confusing and i feel hurt.

He is so sweet and a really great boyfriend so I figured he just had a lapse in judgement. But after I went back to bed I was too scared to fall back asleep. I told him i couldn’t go back to sleep after waking up and he asked me what woke me up and I said I just had to pee, he just said okay. Now I feel betrayed and he is deciding to lie about it, if it was just an accident (you don’t just accidentally assault someone in their sleep but sometimes you make bad decisions that you regret) he would’ve confessed and apologized.

I was only asleep for maybe an hour before this all happened. And prior to falling asleep the first time he asked me to take off my underwear, which i declined because we only take them off at night to have sex. But he promised me he didn’t want to do anything since he had work in the morning, so i did. I don’t know the extent of which he touched me which makes this all worse.

This is the second time i have woken up to him sucking my boobs while i was sleeping.

Sorry if this is all over the place I just wanted to vent, I am planning on confronting him tonight after work. Wanted to post on off my chest but IK he frequents that sub.

EDIT: He is aware of my abusive past. We have discussed NOT doing sexual acts with each other when one is sleeping unless we consent before going to sleep. We are both 20. He does not have sexsomnia.