After 4 years together, my partner doesn’t seem to want sex. And it is kinda hard for me, because I love sex. I understand that she might be tired, stressed, etc, so I don’t insist on sex everyday, but at least few times a week would do, but even that is a challenge nowadays.
I have discussed this several times, but things didn’t improve much.
I’ve tried to improve myself, be more attentive to her, give her more free time, take her out more often, don’t ask for sex until she initiates it, etc. but sometimes the gap is getting just too long.
I have also tried to diversify our sex life, like having sex in different places, different positions, bought a sex toys for her. Looks at the beginning she liked it , but then excitement rolled back quite fast.
Just some more details, I try not to force myself or my desired. When we having sex I take long to do the foreplay – kissing, hugging, leaking her pussy and ass hoping that this will turn her on and want sex.
Any advice from anyone?
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r/sex After 4 years together, my partner doesn’t seem to want sex. And it is kinda hard for me, because I love sex. I understand that she might be tired, stressed, etc, so I don’t insist on sex everyday, but at least few times a week would do, but even that is a challenge nowadays. I have discussed this several times, but things didn’t improve much. I’ve tried to improve myself, be more attentive to her, give her more free time, take her out more often, don’t ask for sex until she initiates it, etc. but sometimes the gap is getting just too long. I have also tried to diversify our sex life, like having sex in different places, different positions, bought a sex toys for her. Looks at the beginning she liked it , but then excitement rolled back quite fast. Just some more details, I try not to force myself or my desired. When we having sex I take long to do the foreplay – kissing, hugging, leaking her pussy and ass hoping that this will turn her on and want sex. Any advice from anyone? submitted by /u/iamcuriousbuddy [link] [comments]
After 4 years together, my partner doesn’t seem to want sex. And it is kinda hard for me, because I love sex. I understand that she might be tired, stressed, etc, so I don’t insist on sex everyday, but at least few times a week would do, but even that is a challenge nowadays.
I have discussed this several times, but things didn’t improve much.
I’ve tried to improve myself, be more attentive to her, give her more free time, take her out more often, don’t ask for sex until she initiates it, etc. but sometimes the gap is getting just too long.
I have also tried to diversify our sex life, like having sex in different places, different positions, bought a sex toys for her. Looks at the beginning she liked it , but then excitement rolled back quite fast.
Just some more details, I try not to force myself or my desired. When we having sex I take long to do the foreplay – kissing, hugging, leaking her pussy and ass hoping that this will turn her on and want sex.
Any advice from anyone?
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