Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and we have lived together for the past 3 (it’s a long story). I (F18) feel like a sex pest to him (M22). We probably have sex once or twice a month since we moved in and I always get horny and he’s never in the mood. At this point I have given up even trying to start anything because it has NEVER once worked since the day we moved in. Before that for the first 2 months everything was great and I thought we had similar libidos and he was saying all these things about sex plans for when we moved in and didn’t have to buy hotel rooms. But now we are here he says that he’s: 1. Too tired. 2. Too cold. 3. Can’t be bothered. And 4. Is bored of sex.
He is much more experienced with me and I have expressed how I want to try new things and he said we could but last week we have a conversation about the lack of sex again and he said we won’t be doing any of it. He said that he is bored of the sex we have and that he has been like that in all his past relationships.
I feel unsatisfied by him, I do not want to end things because emotionally this is amazing. We have this lease until November and both our names are on it. Ending things and sleeping with someone else would make things worse.
Sex toys just don’t hit the same either. I want him, not some silicone.
Any advice?
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r/sex Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and we have lived together for the past 3 (it’s a long story). I (F18) feel like a sex pest to him (M22). We probably have sex once or twice a month since we moved in and I always get horny and he’s never in the mood. At this point I have given up even trying to start anything because it has NEVER once worked since the day we moved in. Before that for the first 2 months everything was great and I thought we had similar libidos and he was saying all these things about sex plans for when we moved in and didn’t have to buy hotel rooms. But now we are here he says that he’s: 1. Too tired. 2. Too cold. 3. Can’t be bothered. And 4. Is bored of sex. He is much more experienced with me and I have expressed how I want to try new things and he said we could but last week we have a conversation about the lack of sex again and he said we won’t be doing any of it. He said that he is bored of the sex we have and that he has been like that in all his past relationships. I feel unsatisfied by him, I do not want to end things because emotionally this is amazing. We have this lease until November and both our names are on it. Ending things and sleeping with someone else would make things worse. Sex toys just don’t hit the same either. I want him, not some silicone. Any advice? submitted by /u/terrifir [link] [comments]
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and we have lived together for the past 3 (it’s a long story). I (F18) feel like a sex pest to him (M22). We probably have sex once or twice a month since we moved in and I always get horny and he’s never in the mood. At this point I have given up even trying to start anything because it has NEVER once worked since the day we moved in. Before that for the first 2 months everything was great and I thought we had similar libidos and he was saying all these things about sex plans for when we moved in and didn’t have to buy hotel rooms. But now we are here he says that he’s: 1. Too tired. 2. Too cold. 3. Can’t be bothered. And 4. Is bored of sex.
He is much more experienced with me and I have expressed how I want to try new things and he said we could but last week we have a conversation about the lack of sex again and he said we won’t be doing any of it. He said that he is bored of the sex we have and that he has been like that in all his past relationships.
I feel unsatisfied by him, I do not want to end things because emotionally this is amazing. We have this lease until November and both our names are on it. Ending things and sleeping with someone else would make things worse.
Sex toys just don’t hit the same either. I want him, not some silicone.
Any advice?
submitted by /u/terrifir
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