Boyfriend bought a sex you and it’s making me anxious /u/Bolognesespaghetti13 Sex

Hi reddit, I’m writing this because I’m kinda worried about my boyfriends new purchase. To give some backstory my bf has always wanted to do anal. I’ve tried it several times but it’s just not for me. Because of this he recently decided to buy a anal sex toy. When I first heard about this idea of his I didn’t take it seriously since I didn’t think he would actually buy it, but I asked him 3 days ago and apparently he already bought it. For some more background info; I’m a very insecure person generally and he was a virgin before meeting me therefore I’m very nervous about him using this flashlight. I know it probably won’t replace me, but the thought of him liking it better than me or it being tighter than me makes me anxious. In my head i’m wondering if he’ll try it and get obsessed with it (he has had issues with jerking of to much in the past).I’m also kinda nervous to bring this up with him since we’ve had similar discussions about porn and he got really heated and defensive (I don’t respond well to anger). It’s probably too late now but I relay don’t want him to use it if I’m being totally honest… I’m also scared that I’ll think about this constantly and not be able to spend time or let alone fuck him. It’s probably silly and I don’t want to project my insecurities into him but I can’t stop thinking about it… I could use some advice.

Sorry if my english is bad it’s not my first language.

Hi reddit, I’m writing this because I’m kinda worried about my boyfriends new purchase. To give some backstory my bf has always wanted to do anal. I’ve tried it several times but it’s just not for me. Because of this he recently decided to buy a anal sex toy. When I first heard about this idea of his I didn’t take it seriously since I didn’t think he would actually buy it, but I asked him 3 days ago and apparently he already bought it. For some more background info; I’m a very insecure person generally and he was a virgin before meeting me therefore I’m very nervous about him using this flashlight. I know it probably won’t replace me, but the thought of him liking it better than me or it being tighter than me makes me anxious. In my head i’m wondering if he’ll try it and get obsessed with it (he has had issues with jerking of to much in the past).I’m also kinda nervous to bring this up with him since we’ve had similar discussions about porn and he got really heated and defensive (I don’t respond well to anger). It’s probably too late now but I relay don’t want him to use it if I’m being totally honest… I’m also scared that I’ll think about this constantly and not be able to spend time or let alone fuck him. It’s probably silly and I don’t want to project my insecurities into him but I can’t stop thinking about it… I could use some advice.

Sorry if my english is bad it’s not my first language.