Throwaway here, because that’s what keeps Reddit free. So, I’ve been single for a spell now and just started chatting and dating this amazing woman. We’ve flirted over text and shared somethings that are quite intimate and something she dropped was that one of her least favorite things about her previous relationship was that her ex would absolutely not, under penalty of death, go down on her, despite her routinely going down on him. (There were other larger, more serious issues with the relationship, that was just something that she disliked about it.) I assured her that was NOT a problem, that I genuinely LOVE oral sex, from both an administration and receiving position. Here’s my problem and major concern…..
When I am going down on a woman, if she’s into it at all, moaning, squirming, talking ANYTHING like that, I have a real hard time (read: damn near impossible) not coming. I don’t know what it is other than I’m just really, really enjoying what is happening, or, hell, I don’t know. The reason I’m concerned is because in my most recent relationship, I was routinely told that this is a problem. (Okay, in fairness, she never said it was a problem, she used words and phrases more along the lines of, “Potential medical issue” or “Have you considered talking to somebody?” and, “Well, maybe not abnormal, but certainly not normal.” These were not said in a joking fashion.) The entire relationship was pretty toxic and I’m hoping this was just another aspect or part of that toxicity and not an accurate representation of how women feel about this…..And, if it IS an issue, is this something I should bring up ahead of time or just let it play out….? I’m having the nervous tummy about this and not the good kind of nervous tummy……
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r/sex Throwaway here, because that’s what keeps Reddit free. So, I’ve been single for a spell now and just started chatting and dating this amazing woman. We’ve flirted over text and shared somethings that are quite intimate and something she dropped was that one of her least favorite things about her previous relationship was that her ex would absolutely not, under penalty of death, go down on her, despite her routinely going down on him. (There were other larger, more serious issues with the relationship, that was just something that she disliked about it.) I assured her that was NOT a problem, that I genuinely LOVE oral sex, from both an administration and receiving position. Here’s my problem and major concern….. When I am going down on a woman, if she’s into it at all, moaning, squirming, talking ANYTHING like that, I have a real hard time (read: damn near impossible) not coming. I don’t know what it is other than I’m just really, really enjoying what is happening, or, hell, I don’t know. The reason I’m concerned is because in my most recent relationship, I was routinely told that this is a problem. (Okay, in fairness, she never said it was a problem, she used words and phrases more along the lines of, “Potential medical issue” or “Have you considered talking to somebody?” and, “Well, maybe not abnormal, but certainly not normal.” These were not said in a joking fashion.) The entire relationship was pretty toxic and I’m hoping this was just another aspect or part of that toxicity and not an accurate representation of how women feel about this…..And, if it IS an issue, is this something I should bring up ahead of time or just let it play out….? I’m having the nervous tummy about this and not the good kind of nervous tummy…… submitted by /u/Autoselfdesturctaway [link] [comments]
Throwaway here, because that’s what keeps Reddit free. So, I’ve been single for a spell now and just started chatting and dating this amazing woman. We’ve flirted over text and shared somethings that are quite intimate and something she dropped was that one of her least favorite things about her previous relationship was that her ex would absolutely not, under penalty of death, go down on her, despite her routinely going down on him. (There were other larger, more serious issues with the relationship, that was just something that she disliked about it.) I assured her that was NOT a problem, that I genuinely LOVE oral sex, from both an administration and receiving position. Here’s my problem and major concern…..
When I am going down on a woman, if she’s into it at all, moaning, squirming, talking ANYTHING like that, I have a real hard time (read: damn near impossible) not coming. I don’t know what it is other than I’m just really, really enjoying what is happening, or, hell, I don’t know. The reason I’m concerned is because in my most recent relationship, I was routinely told that this is a problem. (Okay, in fairness, she never said it was a problem, she used words and phrases more along the lines of, “Potential medical issue” or “Have you considered talking to somebody?” and, “Well, maybe not abnormal, but certainly not normal.” These were not said in a joking fashion.) The entire relationship was pretty toxic and I’m hoping this was just another aspect or part of that toxicity and not an accurate representation of how women feel about this…..And, if it IS an issue, is this something I should bring up ahead of time or just let it play out….? I’m having the nervous tummy about this and not the good kind of nervous tummy……
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