me [22F] and my bf [23M] are long distance right now, but he visited me at my school for a long weekend recently. one afternoon we had sex for probably almost two hours, during which i came at least 11 times. some orgasms were from piv, some were from his hands and tongue stimulating my clit, some were from fingering — i felt like i had 3 different categories of orgasms. i was totally surprised he wanted to keep going each time he made me cum. i tried to switch the attention to him but he would always end up pushing me down and taking control again. i ended up making him cum twice, then we talked and showered, and then i made him cum again. we have a really fun dynamic (have been best friends for years before we started dating) and i really trust our communication, but this almost just seems excessive. am i just super lucky? he is only my second boyfriend and he’s the first person i had piv with so i’m not super experienced. is accepting and enjoying that much attention for the majority of our time having sex ok, or just selfish? he makes me feel incredible — he has seriously blown my expectations of sex and my own body’s ability to experience pleasure out of the water — and i just want to return the favor. we don’t really have a routine being LD, but when we do get to have sex he usually cums once while i consistently cum at least five or six times. besides just talking with him, what are some practices for “balance” with sexual partners? in situations like this where one partner is orgasming so much more than the other, is it ok to just enjoy? i feel spoiled and guilty!
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r/sex me [22F] and my bf [23M] are long distance right now, but he visited me at my school for a long weekend recently. one afternoon we had sex for probably almost two hours, during which i came at least 11 times. some orgasms were from piv, some were from his hands and tongue stimulating my clit, some were from fingering — i felt like i had 3 different categories of orgasms. i was totally surprised he wanted to keep going each time he made me cum. i tried to switch the attention to him but he would always end up pushing me down and taking control again. i ended up making him cum twice, then we talked and showered, and then i made him cum again. we have a really fun dynamic (have been best friends for years before we started dating) and i really trust our communication, but this almost just seems excessive. am i just super lucky? he is only my second boyfriend and he’s the first person i had piv with so i’m not super experienced. is accepting and enjoying that much attention for the majority of our time having sex ok, or just selfish? he makes me feel incredible — he has seriously blown my expectations of sex and my own body’s ability to experience pleasure out of the water — and i just want to return the favor. we don’t really have a routine being LD, but when we do get to have sex he usually cums once while i consistently cum at least five or six times. besides just talking with him, what are some practices for “balance” with sexual partners? in situations like this where one partner is orgasming so much more than the other, is it ok to just enjoy? i feel spoiled and guilty! submitted by /u/wrenevensong [link] [comments]
me [22F] and my bf [23M] are long distance right now, but he visited me at my school for a long weekend recently. one afternoon we had sex for probably almost two hours, during which i came at least 11 times. some orgasms were from piv, some were from his hands and tongue stimulating my clit, some were from fingering — i felt like i had 3 different categories of orgasms. i was totally surprised he wanted to keep going each time he made me cum. i tried to switch the attention to him but he would always end up pushing me down and taking control again. i ended up making him cum twice, then we talked and showered, and then i made him cum again. we have a really fun dynamic (have been best friends for years before we started dating) and i really trust our communication, but this almost just seems excessive. am i just super lucky? he is only my second boyfriend and he’s the first person i had piv with so i’m not super experienced. is accepting and enjoying that much attention for the majority of our time having sex ok, or just selfish? he makes me feel incredible — he has seriously blown my expectations of sex and my own body’s ability to experience pleasure out of the water — and i just want to return the favor. we don’t really have a routine being LD, but when we do get to have sex he usually cums once while i consistently cum at least five or six times. besides just talking with him, what are some practices for “balance” with sexual partners? in situations like this where one partner is orgasming so much more than the other, is it ok to just enjoy? i feel spoiled and guilty!
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