My (23F) boyfriend (25M) thinks I’m too much in bed. /u/TryingmyBest574 Sex

My bf told me I am way too much in bed and idk what to do. I like really rough and animalistic sex and for me that should be something that lasts way longer than 20-30mins. Every time we have sex it’s like going through the motions. When I tell him this he takes it personal and gets angry making any conversation impossible. I don’t think I’m asking for too much in bed but he seems to think I’m a sick weirdo! I guess what I’m trying to figure out here is if I am the one in the wrong here. For example, I asked him to handcuff me and make me take it while spanking me till I’m screaming, and he was almost grossed out! He’s the only guy I’ve tried to share this side of me with and now I’m worried there is something wrong with me. Please tell me I’m not crazy….

My bf told me I am way too much in bed and idk what to do. I like really rough and animalistic sex and for me that should be something that lasts way longer than 20-30mins. Every time we have sex it’s like going through the motions. When I tell him this he takes it personal and gets angry making any conversation impossible. I don’t think I’m asking for too much in bed but he seems to think I’m a sick weirdo! I guess what I’m trying to figure out here is if I am the one in the wrong here. For example, I asked him to handcuff me and make me take it while spanking me till I’m screaming, and he was almost grossed out! He’s the only guy I’ve tried to share this side of me with and now I’m worried there is something wrong with me. Please tell me I’m not crazy….