So me and my partner were spooning a bit, and I said that, without trying to offend him, I wanted him to make my cum by clit-stimulation. He was totally fine with it, and didn’t mind the comment at all. Now, here is were everything went wrong; I (accidentally) said: “but your sweet and kind etc.”, and I felt the awkwardness rise and now we both feel pretty horrible, as if I said that he probably couldn’t do it right or something.
He said that it was okay, but I still feel this weird tension between us now. What should I do now? Because I feel really bad about it, and I didn’t mean for it to come out this way, it was meant as something positive; how he is so sweet to take it up so well. But now I can’t correct myself without it being backtracking on words, and making it even more weird between us.
Does anyone have any advice?
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r/sex So me and my partner were spooning a bit, and I said that, without trying to offend him, I wanted him to make my cum by clit-stimulation. He was totally fine with it, and didn’t mind the comment at all. Now, here is were everything went wrong; I (accidentally) said: “but your sweet and kind etc.”, and I felt the awkwardness rise and now we both feel pretty horrible, as if I said that he probably couldn’t do it right or something. He said that it was okay, but I still feel this weird tension between us now. What should I do now? Because I feel really bad about it, and I didn’t mean for it to come out this way, it was meant as something positive; how he is so sweet to take it up so well. But now I can’t correct myself without it being backtracking on words, and making it even more weird between us. Does anyone have any advice? submitted by /u/AniiBeez [link] [comments]
So me and my partner were spooning a bit, and I said that, without trying to offend him, I wanted him to make my cum by clit-stimulation. He was totally fine with it, and didn’t mind the comment at all. Now, here is were everything went wrong; I (accidentally) said: “but your sweet and kind etc.”, and I felt the awkwardness rise and now we both feel pretty horrible, as if I said that he probably couldn’t do it right or something.
He said that it was okay, but I still feel this weird tension between us now. What should I do now? Because I feel really bad about it, and I didn’t mean for it to come out this way, it was meant as something positive; how he is so sweet to take it up so well. But now I can’t correct myself without it being backtracking on words, and making it even more weird between us.
Does anyone have any advice?
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