Just wondering if this is common? My partner (35M) gets hard quickly when we start fooling around but once he starts fingering me or spending time teasing me orally, he goes soft. I usually give him a blow job to get him going again and that seems to work most times.
Sometimes, he also goes soft mid intercourse. We can usually get that back too with a blow job but i’m starting to take it personally when I know I shouldn’t. I suspect he masterbates and watches porn alot, which he denies and I’m starting to get concerned sex just doesn’t do it for him.
He didn’t have this issue with his last short term partner but he admits his libido was low and he wasn’t emotionally connected with her like he is with me.
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r/sex Just wondering if this is common? My partner (35M) gets hard quickly when we start fooling around but once he starts fingering me or spending time teasing me orally, he goes soft. I usually give him a blow job to get him going again and that seems to work most times. Sometimes, he also goes soft mid intercourse. We can usually get that back too with a blow job but i’m starting to take it personally when I know I shouldn’t. I suspect he masterbates and watches porn alot, which he denies and I’m starting to get concerned sex just doesn’t do it for him. He didn’t have this issue with his last short term partner but he admits his libido was low and he wasn’t emotionally connected with her like he is with me. submitted by /u/blumpkin2059 [link] [comments]
Just wondering if this is common? My partner (35M) gets hard quickly when we start fooling around but once he starts fingering me or spending time teasing me orally, he goes soft. I usually give him a blow job to get him going again and that seems to work most times.
Sometimes, he also goes soft mid intercourse. We can usually get that back too with a blow job but i’m starting to take it personally when I know I shouldn’t. I suspect he masterbates and watches porn alot, which he denies and I’m starting to get concerned sex just doesn’t do it for him.
He didn’t have this issue with his last short term partner but he admits his libido was low and he wasn’t emotionally connected with her like he is with me.
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