My boyfriend gets jealous if I masturbate without him? /u/justsomethingrandomi Sex

you cannot make this stuff up. It’s really weird. I (M19) was jerking off and used some nice lotion and it was just like a nice time. so i jokingly messaged my boyfriend (M19) about using this “revolutionary lotion” for his own jerk off time, and he got upset. the next day I saw him he got really mad and was saying that I shouldn’t be jerking of without him because i should only be experiencing this sexual pleasure from him. he’s done this before where he doesn’t want me to use sex toys, but I can’t even masturbate now? his biggest concern is that I’ll be “looking at other guys instead of him” or “thinking of a celebrity crush” how the hell do I reassure him that it’s not that deep??

you cannot make this stuff up. It’s really weird. I (M19) was jerking off and used some nice lotion and it was just like a nice time. so i jokingly messaged my boyfriend (M19) about using this “revolutionary lotion” for his own jerk off time, and he got upset. the next day I saw him he got really mad and was saying that I shouldn’t be jerking of without him because i should only be experiencing this sexual pleasure from him. he’s done this before where he doesn’t want me to use sex toys, but I can’t even masturbate now? his biggest concern is that I’ll be “looking at other guys instead of him” or “thinking of a celebrity crush” how the hell do I reassure him that it’s not that deep??