I (NB21) have been dating Mak (M20) for about 6 months now.
We have great chemistry outside the bedroom but, whenever it comes to inside the bedroom, I’m horribly bored.
We’re polyamorous, and my other partner and I have FANTASTIC sex. Kinky, intense, romantic, and WITH VERY OPEN COMMUNICATION. Basically, the works.
When mak and I have sex… I feel like I’m fucking a piece of cardboard. Not because he’s not into it that much, but because he doesn’t rlly talk, at all, doesn’t ask me what I want, doesn’t tell me what he wants, doesn’t try anything new, and is almost exclusively focused on orgasms.
He cums really quick with no warning, and then I’m supposed to stop touching him till he makes me cum and then there isn’t rlly any aftercare.
It’s just… boring. I’ve told him how kinky I am and what my needs are and how he needs to communicate more and he’s SAID he’ll try but that was like… 3 months ago. Sex is so important to me and I feel zero improvement from his end (except for the fact he actually managed to make me cum last week finally…)
I do really like him in every other aspect and I don’t wanna be shallow by breaking up with someone over sex… idk what to do
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r/sex I (NB21) have been dating Mak (M20) for about 6 months now. We have great chemistry outside the bedroom but, whenever it comes to inside the bedroom, I’m horribly bored. We’re polyamorous, and my other partner and I have FANTASTIC sex. Kinky, intense, romantic, and WITH VERY OPEN COMMUNICATION. Basically, the works. When mak and I have sex… I feel like I’m fucking a piece of cardboard. Not because he’s not into it that much, but because he doesn’t rlly talk, at all, doesn’t ask me what I want, doesn’t tell me what he wants, doesn’t try anything new, and is almost exclusively focused on orgasms. He cums really quick with no warning, and then I’m supposed to stop touching him till he makes me cum and then there isn’t rlly any aftercare. It’s just… boring. I’ve told him how kinky I am and what my needs are and how he needs to communicate more and he’s SAID he’ll try but that was like… 3 months ago. Sex is so important to me and I feel zero improvement from his end (except for the fact he actually managed to make me cum last week finally…) I do really like him in every other aspect and I don’t wanna be shallow by breaking up with someone over sex… idk what to do submitted by /u/ChickadeeKnight [link] [comments]
I (NB21) have been dating Mak (M20) for about 6 months now.
We have great chemistry outside the bedroom but, whenever it comes to inside the bedroom, I’m horribly bored.
We’re polyamorous, and my other partner and I have FANTASTIC sex. Kinky, intense, romantic, and WITH VERY OPEN COMMUNICATION. Basically, the works.
When mak and I have sex… I feel like I’m fucking a piece of cardboard. Not because he’s not into it that much, but because he doesn’t rlly talk, at all, doesn’t ask me what I want, doesn’t tell me what he wants, doesn’t try anything new, and is almost exclusively focused on orgasms.
He cums really quick with no warning, and then I’m supposed to stop touching him till he makes me cum and then there isn’t rlly any aftercare.
It’s just… boring. I’ve told him how kinky I am and what my needs are and how he needs to communicate more and he’s SAID he’ll try but that was like… 3 months ago. Sex is so important to me and I feel zero improvement from his end (except for the fact he actually managed to make me cum last week finally…)
I do really like him in every other aspect and I don’t wanna be shallow by breaking up with someone over sex… idk what to do
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