I’m a virgin and I (20f) started dating this guy (22m) and we tried to have sex for the first time a few days ago. He was able to fit one finger in me without pain, when we tried his penis it hurt soo bad. We used lots of lube and it barley helped, I could only fit the tip. The worst part is I’m on antidepressants (started 2 months ago) and I’ve been having trouble orgasming ever since. When he tried to make me cum with oral and fingering and it still felt good but I just couldn’t get there. It makes me feel really bad that he can’t make me cum. I’m not sure what to do. I know it’s important that I should try to orgasm before penetrating so I’m relaxed but it’s hard. I’m on 50 mg of sertraline (Zoloft). Does the problem go away overtime?
If anyone has any advice on sex with antidepressants or about how to make penetration easier I’d really appreciate it…
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r/sex I’m a virgin and I (20f) started dating this guy (22m) and we tried to have sex for the first time a few days ago. He was able to fit one finger in me without pain, when we tried his penis it hurt soo bad. We used lots of lube and it barley helped, I could only fit the tip. The worst part is I’m on antidepressants (started 2 months ago) and I’ve been having trouble orgasming ever since. When he tried to make me cum with oral and fingering and it still felt good but I just couldn’t get there. It makes me feel really bad that he can’t make me cum. I’m not sure what to do. I know it’s important that I should try to orgasm before penetrating so I’m relaxed but it’s hard. I’m on 50 mg of sertraline (Zoloft). Does the problem go away overtime? If anyone has any advice on sex with antidepressants or about how to make penetration easier I’d really appreciate it… submitted by /u/Sweetie-Paws1812 [link] [comments]
I’m a virgin and I (20f) started dating this guy (22m) and we tried to have sex for the first time a few days ago. He was able to fit one finger in me without pain, when we tried his penis it hurt soo bad. We used lots of lube and it barley helped, I could only fit the tip. The worst part is I’m on antidepressants (started 2 months ago) and I’ve been having trouble orgasming ever since. When he tried to make me cum with oral and fingering and it still felt good but I just couldn’t get there. It makes me feel really bad that he can’t make me cum. I’m not sure what to do. I know it’s important that I should try to orgasm before penetrating so I’m relaxed but it’s hard. I’m on 50 mg of sertraline (Zoloft). Does the problem go away overtime?
If anyone has any advice on sex with antidepressants or about how to make penetration easier I’d really appreciate it…
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