This feels so silly and ridiculous to think about but that’s exactly why I can’t talk to my friends about it, so here goes; TLDR, I’m 24F with a 25M partner, and I want him to call me a “good girl” during sex sometimes, BUT we have two female pets that we say that to regularly, which makes me think he might think I’m a little odd for liking it. So I guess I’m wondering if I’m overthinking this, or how to approach it, with that context in mind.
A few weeks ago, I read a sexy story where one partner kept calling the other a “good girl,” and I found it surprisingly hot. Surprisingly, because I’m not into much dirty talk; I think I like “good girl” because it’s positive rather than degrading, but still carries a subtle dominance to it.
But my partner and I have a dog and cat, both girls, both of whom we often call “good girls” for various nonsense, like most pet owners who fawn over their animals. We LOVE our pets. And I definitely don’t want to be treated like a pet, but there’s something super sexy about the context of “good girl” during foreplay or sex! I can’t get it out of my head.
So, I’m sure people will suggest just sending him the story I liked, which I could do, but he’s not into erotica like that, and it feels like a very indirect way to bring it up. I want to straight up be able to say “I want you to call me your good girl while I (insert whatever your imagination likes here),” but we’re not super kinky and our sex (while undeniably satisfying and great) is a lot of the same old things, over and over. So bringing up something new, especially something like this, has me thinking more than I probably should about the whole thing.
So yeah, just looking for advice on how to bring it up easiest/sexiest, or maybe for some perspective from guys (especially owners of female pets!) on how this would strike you if it came from your gf! Maybe I’m overthinking the whole thing lol
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r/sex This feels so silly and ridiculous to think about but that’s exactly why I can’t talk to my friends about it, so here goes; TLDR, I’m 24F with a 25M partner, and I want him to call me a “good girl” during sex sometimes, BUT we have two female pets that we say that to regularly, which makes me think he might think I’m a little odd for liking it. So I guess I’m wondering if I’m overthinking this, or how to approach it, with that context in mind. A few weeks ago, I read a sexy story where one partner kept calling the other a “good girl,” and I found it surprisingly hot. Surprisingly, because I’m not into much dirty talk; I think I like “good girl” because it’s positive rather than degrading, but still carries a subtle dominance to it. But my partner and I have a dog and cat, both girls, both of whom we often call “good girls” for various nonsense, like most pet owners who fawn over their animals. We LOVE our pets. And I definitely don’t want to be treated like a pet, but there’s something super sexy about the context of “good girl” during foreplay or sex! I can’t get it out of my head. So, I’m sure people will suggest just sending him the story I liked, which I could do, but he’s not into erotica like that, and it feels like a very indirect way to bring it up. I want to straight up be able to say “I want you to call me your good girl while I (insert whatever your imagination likes here),” but we’re not super kinky and our sex (while undeniably satisfying and great) is a lot of the same old things, over and over. So bringing up something new, especially something like this, has me thinking more than I probably should about the whole thing. So yeah, just looking for advice on how to bring it up easiest/sexiest, or maybe for some perspective from guys (especially owners of female pets!) on how this would strike you if it came from your gf! Maybe I’m overthinking the whole thing lol submitted by /u/Just-A-Bi-Cycle [link] [comments]
This feels so silly and ridiculous to think about but that’s exactly why I can’t talk to my friends about it, so here goes; TLDR, I’m 24F with a 25M partner, and I want him to call me a “good girl” during sex sometimes, BUT we have two female pets that we say that to regularly, which makes me think he might think I’m a little odd for liking it. So I guess I’m wondering if I’m overthinking this, or how to approach it, with that context in mind.
A few weeks ago, I read a sexy story where one partner kept calling the other a “good girl,” and I found it surprisingly hot. Surprisingly, because I’m not into much dirty talk; I think I like “good girl” because it’s positive rather than degrading, but still carries a subtle dominance to it.
But my partner and I have a dog and cat, both girls, both of whom we often call “good girls” for various nonsense, like most pet owners who fawn over their animals. We LOVE our pets. And I definitely don’t want to be treated like a pet, but there’s something super sexy about the context of “good girl” during foreplay or sex! I can’t get it out of my head.
So, I’m sure people will suggest just sending him the story I liked, which I could do, but he’s not into erotica like that, and it feels like a very indirect way to bring it up. I want to straight up be able to say “I want you to call me your good girl while I (insert whatever your imagination likes here),” but we’re not super kinky and our sex (while undeniably satisfying and great) is a lot of the same old things, over and over. So bringing up something new, especially something like this, has me thinking more than I probably should about the whole thing.
So yeah, just looking for advice on how to bring it up easiest/sexiest, or maybe for some perspective from guys (especially owners of female pets!) on how this would strike you if it came from your gf! Maybe I’m overthinking the whole thing lol
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