The wife wants me to do things I’m not really into or I have to break up with her & her husband /u/ccj5_ Sex

I’ve been seeing this couple for almost 6 months now. At first we were all having fun then the wife started being distant. They would tell me to come over and she would just leave and I’d be by myself with the husband. I made sure to ask if they’re both ok with it and they told me that they decided to each see separate people so the husband seeing me and her seeing another guy she met.

Then last week she started texting me flirting and saying she misses me. She asked me to meet up with her at her friend’s house. The husband told me it was fine and that I should go so I went. What happened there that night was by far my worst sexual experience. There were 2 guys, not just her “friend”. And it basically turned into a situation where she was watching them do things to me. I don’t want to get into too many details but they were rough and wouldn’t listen to me at all. I literally have bruises from them still.

After that night, I didn’t want to answer any of her texts or calls. I haven’t even gone back to their place yet since, the husband just comes over to mine. Now today he just told me that his wife is saying if I don’t want to deal with her anymore and do things that please her then they’re going to go back to a closed relationship and break up with me.

This is so unfair because how can she try to force me to do things I’m not into? The way those guys treated me was humiliating and I hated it. Now I have to break up with her husband that I actually enjoy spending time with if I don’t want to do it again? I don’t want to stop seeing him … just looking for some advice if you have any

(Throw away account, hoping they don’t see this)

I’ve been seeing this couple for almost 6 months now. At first we were all having fun then the wife started being distant. They would tell me to come over and she would just leave and I’d be by myself with the husband. I made sure to ask if they’re both ok with it and they told me that they decided to each see separate people so the husband seeing me and her seeing another guy she met.

Then last week she started texting me flirting and saying she misses me. She asked me to meet up with her at her friend’s house. The husband told me it was fine and that I should go so I went. What happened there that night was by far my worst sexual experience. There were 2 guys, not just her “friend”. And it basically turned into a situation where she was watching them do things to me. I don’t want to get into too many details but they were rough and wouldn’t listen to me at all. I literally have bruises from them still.

After that night, I didn’t want to answer any of her texts or calls. I haven’t even gone back to their place yet since, the husband just comes over to mine. Now today he just told me that his wife is saying if I don’t want to deal with her anymore and do things that please her then they’re going to go back to a closed relationship and break up with me.

This is so unfair because how can she try to force me to do things I’m not into? The way those guys treated me was humiliating and I hated it. Now I have to break up with her husband that I actually enjoy spending time with if I don’t want to do it again? I don’t want to stop seeing him … just looking for some advice if you have any

(Throw away account, hoping they don’t see this)