Son keeps asking me to help him have sex with women and I don’t know what to do /u/ThrowRAmom6864 Sex

I (36F) have a son who is 20M. He’s been expressing to me how sexually frustrated he’s been and that he really wants to start having sex.

He’s always been very open with me about his sexuality ever since he was young and talks with me about everything as far as I know.

He wants me to help him get with women to have sex with. The reason he’s asking me for help is because I’m a “model”. I.e. I have a substantial Instagram following and I take various trips to lavish places. Many times, with other women as well.

He wants to come on one of my trips with me. Which I could do. But i really don’t want him to be in this type of environment. The truth being that drugs and alcohol are usually involved and the environment is sexually charged. Which I know is what he wants ultimately.

But even so, it’s not like I could even make any of these women have sex with him. I told him as much but based off of what I told him about these trips in the past, he knows that many of the women are laid back and very open to casual sex. If I were being honest, I do believe my son could have sex if he came with me. But I want him to find a nice girl to be with who will actually love him. He doesn’t see the point in that though. He wants to be with the type of women who are around me.

He wants to come with me on my next trip. I told him no, that I don’t want him to be exposed to this type of energy and that if he wants to have sex he needs to grow into a respectful man and get a girlfriend. He was very disappointed and said that it wasn’t fair that I get to go on these trips, have fun, and have sex but he couldn’t. He has been giving me the silent treatment and won’t talk to me. I’m not sure what to do.

I (36F) have a son who is 20M. He’s been expressing to me how sexually frustrated he’s been and that he really wants to start having sex.

He’s always been very open with me about his sexuality ever since he was young and talks with me about everything as far as I know.

He wants me to help him get with women to have sex with. The reason he’s asking me for help is because I’m a “model”. I.e. I have a substantial Instagram following and I take various trips to lavish places. Many times, with other women as well.

He wants to come on one of my trips with me. Which I could do. But i really don’t want him to be in this type of environment. The truth being that drugs and alcohol are usually involved and the environment is sexually charged. Which I know is what he wants ultimately.

But even so, it’s not like I could even make any of these women have sex with him. I told him as much but based off of what I told him about these trips in the past, he knows that many of the women are laid back and very open to casual sex. If I were being honest, I do believe my son could have sex if he came with me. But I want him to find a nice girl to be with who will actually love him. He doesn’t see the point in that though. He wants to be with the type of women who are around me.

He wants to come with me on my next trip. I told him no, that I don’t want him to be exposed to this type of energy and that if he wants to have sex he needs to grow into a respectful man and get a girlfriend. He was very disappointed and said that it wasn’t fair that I get to go on these trips, have fun, and have sex but he couldn’t. He has been giving me the silent treatment and won’t talk to me. I’m not sure what to do.