I (24M) am losing connection with Gf (26F). She’s only into sex and Instagram. What to do? /u/readlover12 Sex

We met during university. In that period we had many common interest and we were perfectly compatible, we had so much to talk about and we spent a lot of time doing things together. We had sex too and was good, like 4 or 5 times a week.

I graduated and developed more my interests, like read books, do sport, playing instruments. She was into all these things before, as much if not more than me. Time after time she quit each of these activities, she quit also university without a degree.

Now she’s into two things, sex and Instagram. I like sex, she’s beautiful and extremely skilled but now we do it at least 12-13 times a week, often more, and when I’m not in the mood she tries to convince me anyway. Sometimes I feel it like a duty instead of a pleasure, because if we don’t do enough sex she’s angry all day, I couldn’t imagine I would reach a situation in which I want less sex with an attractive girl. After sex she is sweet as she was before.

Instagram is her other activity, many hours every single day into celebrities posts, nail pictures, insanely expensive dresses. I asked her explainations and she told me that she simply prefer instagram to everything she did before. Our common friends don’t see any problem at all in this, so I don’t talk anymore about it with them.

I know that sex is our last connection point, and I will not resist at this high frequency forever. I don’t want to lose her because she’s sweet, beautiful and we have many great memories together. But I also understand that the girl I loved is no more here.

Anyone was in a similar situation? Any advice?

We met during university. In that period we had many common interest and we were perfectly compatible, we had so much to talk about and we spent a lot of time doing things together. We had sex too and was good, like 4 or 5 times a week.

I graduated and developed more my interests, like read books, do sport, playing instruments. She was into all these things before, as much if not more than me. Time after time she quit each of these activities, she quit also university without a degree.

Now she’s into two things, sex and Instagram. I like sex, she’s beautiful and extremely skilled but now we do it at least 12-13 times a week, often more, and when I’m not in the mood she tries to convince me anyway. Sometimes I feel it like a duty instead of a pleasure, because if we don’t do enough sex she’s angry all day, I couldn’t imagine I would reach a situation in which I want less sex with an attractive girl. After sex she is sweet as she was before.

Instagram is her other activity, many hours every single day into celebrities posts, nail pictures, insanely expensive dresses. I asked her explainations and she told me that she simply prefer instagram to everything she did before. Our common friends don’t see any problem at all in this, so I don’t talk anymore about it with them.

I know that sex is our last connection point, and I will not resist at this high frequency forever. I don’t want to lose her because she’s sweet, beautiful and we have many great memories together. But I also understand that the girl I loved is no more here.

Anyone was in a similar situation? Any advice?