Bf doesn’t want us sleeping together, because of his parents, even though we still have sex /u/Silent_Willingness01 Sex

My BF (22 M) moved back with his parents and now does not want to sleep with me (22 F) at my place because his parents told him he would not. I understand not sleeping at their place, I understand not wanting your child to sleep at their gf place, I do not understand prohibiting your adult son from sleeping at his gf’s place. We’ve been dating almost a year and his parents know that. When he brought it up to them that maybe he could spend a night at my place (which he already has done many times), his mom said absolutely not, and his only other attempt was that we could sleep “with pillows between us,” and his mom was still against it. He agrees with his mom and for moral reasons does not want to sleep with me while he’s there which he will be for the next half a year. We talked about it but I still have serious doubts I can do this, intimacy is important to me. I can sleep at his house on the basement couch, which I have, but he lives an hour away so it’s a lot for me to drive all the way up there for quickies in his basement and then all the way back. He comes to my area maybe weekly, only because of his work nearby, but even then he can’t stay that late or for that long. Our sex life was already lacking and I’m afraid this is going to be a major blow to it and probably get in his head too since his parents are so against it – which now is set in stone since he asked them but before he would just hide it. He really is a sweet guy but this coupled with less frequent and less exciting sex, I just have a lot of doubts. Is this normal for parents to be so strict at 22, even not religious ones? I really just want another perspective, opinion, reassurance, cause it’s getting to me.

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​r/sex My BF (22 M) moved back with his parents and now does not want to sleep with me (22 F) at my place because his parents told him he would not. I understand not sleeping at their place, I understand not wanting your child to sleep at their gf place, I do not understand prohibiting your adult son from sleeping at his gf’s place. We’ve been dating almost a year and his parents know that. When he brought it up to them that maybe he could spend a night at my place (which he already has done many times), his mom said absolutely not, and his only other attempt was that we could sleep “with pillows between us,” and his mom was still against it. He agrees with his mom and for moral reasons does not want to sleep with me while he’s there which he will be for the next half a year. We talked about it but I still have serious doubts I can do this, intimacy is important to me. I can sleep at his house on the basement couch, which I have, but he lives an hour away so it’s a lot for me to drive all the way up there for quickies in his basement and then all the way back. He comes to my area maybe weekly, only because of his work nearby, but even then he can’t stay that late or for that long. Our sex life was already lacking and I’m afraid this is going to be a major blow to it and probably get in his head too since his parents are so against it – which now is set in stone since he asked them but before he would just hide it. He really is a sweet guy but this coupled with less frequent and less exciting sex, I just have a lot of doubts. Is this normal for parents to be so strict at 22, even not religious ones? I really just want another perspective, opinion, reassurance, cause it’s getting to me. submitted by /u/Silent_Willingness01 [link] [comments] 

My BF (22 M) moved back with his parents and now does not want to sleep with me (22 F) at my place because his parents told him he would not. I understand not sleeping at their place, I understand not wanting your child to sleep at their gf place, I do not understand prohibiting your adult son from sleeping at his gf’s place. We’ve been dating almost a year and his parents know that. When he brought it up to them that maybe he could spend a night at my place (which he already has done many times), his mom said absolutely not, and his only other attempt was that we could sleep “with pillows between us,” and his mom was still against it. He agrees with his mom and for moral reasons does not want to sleep with me while he’s there which he will be for the next half a year. We talked about it but I still have serious doubts I can do this, intimacy is important to me. I can sleep at his house on the basement couch, which I have, but he lives an hour away so it’s a lot for me to drive all the way up there for quickies in his basement and then all the way back. He comes to my area maybe weekly, only because of his work nearby, but even then he can’t stay that late or for that long. Our sex life was already lacking and I’m afraid this is going to be a major blow to it and probably get in his head too since his parents are so against it – which now is set in stone since he asked them but before he would just hide it. He really is a sweet guy but this coupled with less frequent and less exciting sex, I just have a lot of doubts. Is this normal for parents to be so strict at 22, even not religious ones? I really just want another perspective, opinion, reassurance, cause it’s getting to me.

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