Pretty self explanatory question, and would appreciate any help:)
Me (F24) and my bf (M25) have tried anal a few times, and it always hurts, I can never take it long enough for him to finish. I’ve done it before with three other people (first two were one time each while pretty drunk, I barely remember, and the third like twice every week for a few months) all without lube, and I never remember it hurting as badly, I actually enjoyed it! He is thicker than all of them and I’m assuming that plays into it, but I just don’t get it. He warms me up more than them and tries to be gentle, we just can’t get it in without it really hurting. We currently use Bedside Manor lube, which works great for PIV but maybe it isn’t up to par for anal? Any lube recommendations or any tips in general would be super helpful. I know it bothers him that I can’t do it for him but I could for these other guys, and it upsets me too. Thanks in advance!
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r/sex Pretty self explanatory question, and would appreciate any help:) Me (F24) and my bf (M25) have tried anal a few times, and it always hurts, I can never take it long enough for him to finish. I’ve done it before with three other people (first two were one time each while pretty drunk, I barely remember, and the third like twice every week for a few months) all without lube, and I never remember it hurting as badly, I actually enjoyed it! He is thicker than all of them and I’m assuming that plays into it, but I just don’t get it. He warms me up more than them and tries to be gentle, we just can’t get it in without it really hurting. We currently use Bedside Manor lube, which works great for PIV but maybe it isn’t up to par for anal? Any lube recommendations or any tips in general would be super helpful. I know it bothers him that I can’t do it for him but I could for these other guys, and it upsets me too. Thanks in advance! submitted by /u/mysecond_reddit [link] [comments]
Pretty self explanatory question, and would appreciate any help:)
Me (F24) and my bf (M25) have tried anal a few times, and it always hurts, I can never take it long enough for him to finish. I’ve done it before with three other people (first two were one time each while pretty drunk, I barely remember, and the third like twice every week for a few months) all without lube, and I never remember it hurting as badly, I actually enjoyed it! He is thicker than all of them and I’m assuming that plays into it, but I just don’t get it. He warms me up more than them and tries to be gentle, we just can’t get it in without it really hurting. We currently use Bedside Manor lube, which works great for PIV but maybe it isn’t up to par for anal? Any lube recommendations or any tips in general would be super helpful. I know it bothers him that I can’t do it for him but I could for these other guys, and it upsets me too. Thanks in advance!
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