Upset because he didn’t tell me no /u/blobercat Sex

So just like the title says I am upset by the lack of communication and not being told no. My partner and I were going to have sex tonight and he didn’t seem into it so I kept asking are you ok? And are you sure you want to do this? He didn’t give me a response so I left and said I didn’t want to do it anymore. I said I don’t feel comfortable having sex with someone who won’t give me any communication or an enthusiastic yes. He said that he feels bad for saying no and he did want to earlier he just wasn’t feeling it anymore. I completely understand, I am just upset he didn’t communicate this with me and right now I feel extremely guilty and uncomfortable. I feel very bad and like I have done something wrong.

So just like the title says I am upset by the lack of communication and not being told no. My partner and I were going to have sex tonight and he didn’t seem into it so I kept asking are you ok? And are you sure you want to do this? He didn’t give me a response so I left and said I didn’t want to do it anymore. I said I don’t feel comfortable having sex with someone who won’t give me any communication or an enthusiastic yes. He said that he feels bad for saying no and he did want to earlier he just wasn’t feeling it anymore. I completely understand, I am just upset he didn’t communicate this with me and right now I feel extremely guilty and uncomfortable. I feel very bad and like I have done something wrong.