new to lesbianism and overwhelmed /u/Low_Introduction_182 Sex

I’m late to the sex party and I never did anything with anyone until I was 23. I’ve met a girl and she asked me if a I had a strap (I don’t lol) and I’ve told her I’m new to all this. I’ve only gone down on a girl once and I wasn’t a fan of it.

Any tips for me? I can never take sex seriously and start laughing which I hate. I know how to finger but that’ll get old especially if I continue seeing this girl.

I have a jaw problem and that’s why I didn’t like oral so if anyone has any tips on using a strap or oral for a beginner I’d appreciate it.

I wouldn’t have a problem using toys which I can be comfortable with like dildos but straps scare me lol.

I’m a top so I gotta learn😭

I’m late to the sex party and I never did anything with anyone until I was 23. I’ve met a girl and she asked me if a I had a strap (I don’t lol) and I’ve told her I’m new to all this. I’ve only gone down on a girl once and I wasn’t a fan of it.

Any tips for me? I can never take sex seriously and start laughing which I hate. I know how to finger but that’ll get old especially if I continue seeing this girl.

I have a jaw problem and that’s why I didn’t like oral so if anyone has any tips on using a strap or oral for a beginner I’d appreciate it.

I wouldn’t have a problem using toys which I can be comfortable with like dildos but straps scare me lol.

I’m a top so I gotta learn😭