How to know if I embarrassed myself or if I’m overthinking /u/Smart_Mushroom_3382 Sex

So I (21F) have started hooking up with this guy (19M) who is honestly super hot and can tell I like to be dominated so the sex is great.

Anyways last time he was teasing me (this was new) and like would seem like he was about to put it in then pull his dick up and rub it on my clit back and forth so I kept thinking he was about to put it in and was getting super worked up with anticipation and he could probably tell but wouldn’t put it in yet even when I was giving him pleading eyes and breathing hard so I finally looked at him and said “please…please put it in”

And omg it felt sooo good when he finally put it in and it made me feel good that he was waiting for me to lowkey beg because I think it’s hot and THEN he said “what do you say?” and obviously this lit me on fire in a sexy way but I didn’t know exactly what he wanted me to say so I just guessed and said “thank you” seductively and it was fine.

So later we were about to start the second round that night and he did the same teasing thing and made me beg him again then when he put it in I said thank you again (he didn’t say anything this time) and he just said “shhhh” after and I was worried he was trying to subtly tell me not to say that without ruining the mood by making me embarrassed and I didn’t want to ask him about it after we had sex because I feel like it’s a little humiliating which is sexy in the moment but I physically can’t bring myself to mention it out loud so I thought I would ask Reddit’s opinion if I was answering right or if I should stop and it was embarrassing because I literally have no idea like I personally thought it was hot but it’s degrading so I would NOT want to say things like that if he wasn’t into it!!

Also how do I find out if he’s into my kinks subtly because i was too embarrassed to tell him I even like stuff like choking like I had to just give him signals! I just got the vibe I shouldn’t have said that but I also think I am just being insecure. Thanks for any help!

So I (21F) have started hooking up with this guy (19M) who is honestly super hot and can tell I like to be dominated so the sex is great.

Anyways last time he was teasing me (this was new) and like would seem like he was about to put it in then pull his dick up and rub it on my clit back and forth so I kept thinking he was about to put it in and was getting super worked up with anticipation and he could probably tell but wouldn’t put it in yet even when I was giving him pleading eyes and breathing hard so I finally looked at him and said “please…please put it in”

And omg it felt sooo good when he finally put it in and it made me feel good that he was waiting for me to lowkey beg because I think it’s hot and THEN he said “what do you say?” and obviously this lit me on fire in a sexy way but I didn’t know exactly what he wanted me to say so I just guessed and said “thank you” seductively and it was fine.

So later we were about to start the second round that night and he did the same teasing thing and made me beg him again then when he put it in I said thank you again (he didn’t say anything this time) and he just said “shhhh” after and I was worried he was trying to subtly tell me not to say that without ruining the mood by making me embarrassed and I didn’t want to ask him about it after we had sex because I feel like it’s a little humiliating which is sexy in the moment but I physically can’t bring myself to mention it out loud so I thought I would ask Reddit’s opinion if I was answering right or if I should stop and it was embarrassing because I literally have no idea like I personally thought it was hot but it’s degrading so I would NOT want to say things like that if he wasn’t into it!!

Also how do I find out if he’s into my kinks subtly because i was too embarrassed to tell him I even like stuff like choking like I had to just give him signals! I just got the vibe I shouldn’t have said that but I also think I am just being insecure. Thanks for any help!