Me 28M and she 25W are currently dating and while we had a talk about out preferences, she told me that she is pretty submissive and would enjoy to get dominated. However, i have like zero experience with my dominant side. The generel idea of dominating someone is still a huge turn on for me, so i guess i can learn to perform in that role. My Problem is, that i just dont know how to engage it, while i have sex with her. We talk completely open about fantasys and she even gives me exact scenarios, which she would enjoy. However i overthink these actions way to much. For example, she wants me very badly to suddenly switch to anal without any warning, so that the analsex will be very rough and painful for her. I tried this twice but everytime there was like a blockade, since my brain was dealing with soo many questions. What if its to hard and i hurt her ? What if she is not prepared this time and her ass in not clean ? Since she ALWAYS turns around immediately after i came in her to suck of the cum, will she do it this time aswell and is it ok for her health, since i was in her ass ? I really dont know how to turn that off and not lose my focus. If anyone had the same problems while exploring his or her dominant side, i would love to hear your experiences and get some advices.
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r/sex Me 28M and she 25W are currently dating and while we had a talk about out preferences, she told me that she is pretty submissive and would enjoy to get dominated. However, i have like zero experience with my dominant side. The generel idea of dominating someone is still a huge turn on for me, so i guess i can learn to perform in that role. My Problem is, that i just dont know how to engage it, while i have sex with her. We talk completely open about fantasys and she even gives me exact scenarios, which she would enjoy. However i overthink these actions way to much. For example, she wants me very badly to suddenly switch to anal without any warning, so that the analsex will be very rough and painful for her. I tried this twice but everytime there was like a blockade, since my brain was dealing with soo many questions. What if its to hard and i hurt her ? What if she is not prepared this time and her ass in not clean ? Since she ALWAYS turns around immediately after i came in her to suck of the cum, will she do it this time aswell and is it ok for her health, since i was in her ass ? I really dont know how to turn that off and not lose my focus. If anyone had the same problems while exploring his or her dominant side, i would love to hear your experiences and get some advices. submitted by /u/hamzabeljabi [link] [comments]
Me 28M and she 25W are currently dating and while we had a talk about out preferences, she told me that she is pretty submissive and would enjoy to get dominated. However, i have like zero experience with my dominant side. The generel idea of dominating someone is still a huge turn on for me, so i guess i can learn to perform in that role. My Problem is, that i just dont know how to engage it, while i have sex with her. We talk completely open about fantasys and she even gives me exact scenarios, which she would enjoy. However i overthink these actions way to much. For example, she wants me very badly to suddenly switch to anal without any warning, so that the analsex will be very rough and painful for her. I tried this twice but everytime there was like a blockade, since my brain was dealing with soo many questions. What if its to hard and i hurt her ? What if she is not prepared this time and her ass in not clean ? Since she ALWAYS turns around immediately after i came in her to suck of the cum, will she do it this time aswell and is it ok for her health, since i was in her ass ? I really dont know how to turn that off and not lose my focus. If anyone had the same problems while exploring his or her dominant side, i would love to hear your experiences and get some advices.
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