How do you ask your partner for a sex act without emotionally guilting them into doing it? /u/young_olufa Sex

As the title says, how would I (M30) ask my partner (F30) to perform a sex act on me without emotionally guilting her into it? I’ve asked her before and I can tell from her facial and body language that she doesn’t enjoy it, so usually I tell her I changed my mind and I don’t want it anymore. She’s done it before like three times without me asking (we’ve been together since September), and she didn’t seem to despise it as much or maybe I just didn’t notice it. I also wonder if it’s a turn off because i specifically ask for it (idk).

I feel like if I told her directly that I really enjoy it, she might feel some sort of guilt and I don’t want her to feel that way. Is there a way to hint it without coming off too strongly ?

As the title says, how would I (M30) ask my partner (F30) to perform a sex act on me without emotionally guilting her into it? I’ve asked her before and I can tell from her facial and body language that she doesn’t enjoy it, so usually I tell her I changed my mind and I don’t want it anymore. She’s done it before like three times without me asking (we’ve been together since September), and she didn’t seem to despise it as much or maybe I just didn’t notice it. I also wonder if it’s a turn off because i specifically ask for it (idk).

I feel like if I told her directly that I really enjoy it, she might feel some sort of guilt and I don’t want her to feel that way. Is there a way to hint it without coming off too strongly ?