Early 30s F here. Penetrative sex has always been confusing to me. I don’t have much sexual experience but it’s enough to draw a pattern – I am able to have sex with some guys and not with others, especially the ‘bigger’ ones. I experience extreme pain/ burning in my vag even though I’m fully lubricated. My OBGYN did a physical examination and everything was fine – no infection, wide enough canal and good vaginal health. She mentioned the reason could me mental. However in my mind, I WANT to have penetrative sex, have a good sex drive but when I’m with a guy my body just closes up and he’s unable to penetrate me, this is true especially when he is well endowed; sometimes the size freaks me out. This has caused me potential relationships and now my mental health is detriorating coz I’m unable to enjoy such a simple pleasure in life.
Has any woman here or men experienced this with their female partners? How did you over come it?
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r/sex Early 30s F here. Penetrative sex has always been confusing to me. I don’t have much sexual experience but it’s enough to draw a pattern – I am able to have sex with some guys and not with others, especially the ‘bigger’ ones. I experience extreme pain/ burning in my vag even though I’m fully lubricated. My OBGYN did a physical examination and everything was fine – no infection, wide enough canal and good vaginal health. She mentioned the reason could me mental. However in my mind, I WANT to have penetrative sex, have a good sex drive but when I’m with a guy my body just closes up and he’s unable to penetrate me, this is true especially when he is well endowed; sometimes the size freaks me out. This has caused me potential relationships and now my mental health is detriorating coz I’m unable to enjoy such a simple pleasure in life. Has any woman here or men experienced this with their female partners? How did you over come it? submitted by /u/Rei_Kuh [link] [comments]
Early 30s F here. Penetrative sex has always been confusing to me. I don’t have much sexual experience but it’s enough to draw a pattern – I am able to have sex with some guys and not with others, especially the ‘bigger’ ones. I experience extreme pain/ burning in my vag even though I’m fully lubricated. My OBGYN did a physical examination and everything was fine – no infection, wide enough canal and good vaginal health. She mentioned the reason could me mental. However in my mind, I WANT to have penetrative sex, have a good sex drive but when I’m with a guy my body just closes up and he’s unable to penetrate me, this is true especially when he is well endowed; sometimes the size freaks me out. This has caused me potential relationships and now my mental health is detriorating coz I’m unable to enjoy such a simple pleasure in life.
Has any woman here or men experienced this with their female partners? How did you over come it?
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