Is there any real, safe way to meet up with people having specific kinks? /u/Total-Drama— Sex

I’ll block every person trying to text me after that post btw so don’t even try.

I’m a woman in my late 20ties and I have enough experience to know that I’m not interested in love and affectionate sex which is frustrating since I’m horny all the time.

I’m into all sorts of abuse, pain, submission, being a slave, punishment, that kind of thing. I need extremes to feel satisfied and I can’t find those kind of men. It’s like the world hates me and almost every guy I was hooking up with was too much of a gentelman. For a while I was hooking up with them anyway because terrible sex is better than no sex at all but it isn’t working for me anymore. I’m just loosing all my excitement once I find out that my partner is too affectionate.

The only option I see is finding those people on the internet. How do I stay safe though? What sites should I use?

I want someone who can make me cry, who can use me for his pleasure, punish me, force me. Initiating that kind of situation with a stranger isn’t very safe, obviously. How do I do it? I can’t deal with my hypersexuality anymore.

I’ll block every person trying to text me after that post btw so don’t even try.

I’m a woman in my late 20ties and I have enough experience to know that I’m not interested in love and affectionate sex which is frustrating since I’m horny all the time.

I’m into all sorts of abuse, pain, submission, being a slave, punishment, that kind of thing. I need extremes to feel satisfied and I can’t find those kind of men. It’s like the world hates me and almost every guy I was hooking up with was too much of a gentelman. For a while I was hooking up with them anyway because terrible sex is better than no sex at all but it isn’t working for me anymore. I’m just loosing all my excitement once I find out that my partner is too affectionate.

The only option I see is finding those people on the internet. How do I stay safe though? What sites should I use?

I want someone who can make me cry, who can use me for his pleasure, punish me, force me. Initiating that kind of situation with a stranger isn’t very safe, obviously. How do I do it? I can’t deal with my hypersexuality anymore.