I have been with my partner for 10 years. We have worked through years and years of the award embarrassment about sex and have a decent sex life. So I do not feel shamed in any way by my body regarding him going down there.
I just, don’t really like it much. For my it feels too slippery, and not enough friction and sensitive. I have a fussy sensitive clit as it is.
My question is, can I please have advice on what I could get my partner to do to enjoy this act more?
I do enjoy it a bit more and can come with kegal vibrator in. when people say “do the alphabet” do they mean like tiny letters pn your clit or big swooping letters? I feel like I need a constant repetitive motion that doesn’t surprise me to enjoy sex acts like this one, mostly because I am sensitive I get anxious that the movement will be uncomfortable for me and it wrecks my vibe.
It’s something I know he would love for me to enjoy more. I give him plenty of head and I feel good about how much he likes it so I kinda get it.
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r/sex I have been with my partner for 10 years. We have worked through years and years of the award embarrassment about sex and have a decent sex life. So I do not feel shamed in any way by my body regarding him going down there. I just, don’t really like it much. For my it feels too slippery, and not enough friction and sensitive. I have a fussy sensitive clit as it is. My question is, can I please have advice on what I could get my partner to do to enjoy this act more? I do enjoy it a bit more and can come with kegal vibrator in. when people say “do the alphabet” do they mean like tiny letters pn your clit or big swooping letters? I feel like I need a constant repetitive motion that doesn’t surprise me to enjoy sex acts like this one, mostly because I am sensitive I get anxious that the movement will be uncomfortable for me and it wrecks my vibe. It’s something I know he would love for me to enjoy more. I give him plenty of head and I feel good about how much he likes it so I kinda get it. submitted by /u/coacoa1990 [link] [comments]
I have been with my partner for 10 years. We have worked through years and years of the award embarrassment about sex and have a decent sex life. So I do not feel shamed in any way by my body regarding him going down there.
I just, don’t really like it much. For my it feels too slippery, and not enough friction and sensitive. I have a fussy sensitive clit as it is.
My question is, can I please have advice on what I could get my partner to do to enjoy this act more?
I do enjoy it a bit more and can come with kegal vibrator in. when people say “do the alphabet” do they mean like tiny letters pn your clit or big swooping letters? I feel like I need a constant repetitive motion that doesn’t surprise me to enjoy sex acts like this one, mostly because I am sensitive I get anxious that the movement will be uncomfortable for me and it wrecks my vibe.
It’s something I know he would love for me to enjoy more. I give him plenty of head and I feel good about how much he likes it so I kinda get it.
submitted by /u/coacoa1990
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