Hi everyone, I’ve been trying to get more info about this, hopefully someone can help. I’m a late 20s Bisexual cis-male who has had a few intimate partners. Recently started seeing someone (F) who provided feedback that I tend to focus too much on them and sex feels too one-sided. In short, they’ve said I need to learn to be more selfish (in a healthy way) in bed and let them pleasure me too.
I realised my previous partners would just be takers and not big on giving. This has honestly shattered my perception because I really do like this person and I’m trying to figure out how to let them please me. Another issue I realised is that I’m very focused on making them orgasm in multiple ways, but don’t focus on my climax as much. I tend to be dominant in bed, but focused on giving. Can someone please advise how I can be better at receiving? TIA!
Tl;Dr: Person told me I’m too focused on their pleasure and sex feels too one-sided. Has said I need to be more selfish as they want to pleasure me too. Any advise on how to let the other person do more for me please?
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r/sex Hi everyone, I’ve been trying to get more info about this, hopefully someone can help. I’m a late 20s Bisexual cis-male who has had a few intimate partners. Recently started seeing someone (F) who provided feedback that I tend to focus too much on them and sex feels too one-sided. In short, they’ve said I need to learn to be more selfish (in a healthy way) in bed and let them pleasure me too. I realised my previous partners would just be takers and not big on giving. This has honestly shattered my perception because I really do like this person and I’m trying to figure out how to let them please me. Another issue I realised is that I’m very focused on making them orgasm in multiple ways, but don’t focus on my climax as much. I tend to be dominant in bed, but focused on giving. Can someone please advise how I can be better at receiving? TIA! Tl;Dr: Person told me I’m too focused on their pleasure and sex feels too one-sided. Has said I need to be more selfish as they want to pleasure me too. Any advise on how to let the other person do more for me please? submitted by /u/VelvetThunderFinance [link] [comments]
Hi everyone, I’ve been trying to get more info about this, hopefully someone can help. I’m a late 20s Bisexual cis-male who has had a few intimate partners. Recently started seeing someone (F) who provided feedback that I tend to focus too much on them and sex feels too one-sided. In short, they’ve said I need to learn to be more selfish (in a healthy way) in bed and let them pleasure me too.
I realised my previous partners would just be takers and not big on giving. This has honestly shattered my perception because I really do like this person and I’m trying to figure out how to let them please me. Another issue I realised is that I’m very focused on making them orgasm in multiple ways, but don’t focus on my climax as much. I tend to be dominant in bed, but focused on giving. Can someone please advise how I can be better at receiving? TIA!
Tl;Dr: Person told me I’m too focused on their pleasure and sex feels too one-sided. Has said I need to be more selfish as they want to pleasure me too. Any advise on how to let the other person do more for me please?
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