Now I know guys can typically finish much more quickly than women. But my man always finishes before me, and then only about half of the time does he offer to finish me (and when he does, I usually have to prompt him or give him the “uh…hello?”). He’s not a selfish guy at all, but I can’t help but feel like this is selfish. I’ve offered tips on edging himself when masturbating to train him to last longer, and idk if he’s even working on it. He’ll go down on me sometimes beforehand, but once he’s in me it’s like I’m an afterthought. He won’t play with my clit to help me get there, he won’t choke me. I’ve talked to him about all this once or twice about what I like, he’s aware he finishes quickly. It’s rare if we make it to 10 minutes before he finishes. I love sex and this is really frustrating that I can’t even do my best work before he’s done. Can anyone give me any suggestions on what I can say or do? Is this not selfish and I’m just being greedy?
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r/sex Now I know guys can typically finish much more quickly than women. But my man always finishes before me, and then only about half of the time does he offer to finish me (and when he does, I usually have to prompt him or give him the “uh…hello?”). He’s not a selfish guy at all, but I can’t help but feel like this is selfish. I’ve offered tips on edging himself when masturbating to train him to last longer, and idk if he’s even working on it. He’ll go down on me sometimes beforehand, but once he’s in me it’s like I’m an afterthought. He won’t play with my clit to help me get there, he won’t choke me. I’ve talked to him about all this once or twice about what I like, he’s aware he finishes quickly. It’s rare if we make it to 10 minutes before he finishes. I love sex and this is really frustrating that I can’t even do my best work before he’s done. Can anyone give me any suggestions on what I can say or do? Is this not selfish and I’m just being greedy? submitted by /u/DothrakiDare [link] [comments]
Now I know guys can typically finish much more quickly than women. But my man always finishes before me, and then only about half of the time does he offer to finish me (and when he does, I usually have to prompt him or give him the “uh…hello?”). He’s not a selfish guy at all, but I can’t help but feel like this is selfish. I’ve offered tips on edging himself when masturbating to train him to last longer, and idk if he’s even working on it. He’ll go down on me sometimes beforehand, but once he’s in me it’s like I’m an afterthought. He won’t play with my clit to help me get there, he won’t choke me. I’ve talked to him about all this once or twice about what I like, he’s aware he finishes quickly. It’s rare if we make it to 10 minutes before he finishes. I love sex and this is really frustrating that I can’t even do my best work before he’s done. Can anyone give me any suggestions on what I can say or do? Is this not selfish and I’m just being greedy?
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