Any tips on ways to initiate sex? /u/Wolf_girl98

Hello!

I (24F) have been with my bf (26M) for just over 2.5 years and it’s honestly been great. We have an awesome sex life and are both open to trying new things. I have realised though (and he mentioned it a couple times in passing) that I almost never initiate sex. It’s definitely not cause I wouldn’t want to but I struggle with finding a way to start without just straight out grabbing his business (which is a way, I know, but doesn’t always suit the mood). I’d say I struggle cause I’m more of a shy person that gets awkward and anxious fairly quickly.

Does anyone have any tips or advice on different ways I could approach this and initiate more often?

Thanks to anyone who helps!

Hello!

I (24F) have been with my bf (26M) for just over 2.5 years and it’s honestly been great. We have an awesome sex life and are both open to trying new things. I have realised though (and he mentioned it a couple times in passing) that I almost never initiate sex. It’s definitely not cause I wouldn’t want to but I struggle with finding a way to start without just straight out grabbing his business (which is a way, I know, but doesn’t always suit the mood). I’d say I struggle cause I’m more of a shy person that gets awkward and anxious fairly quickly.

Does anyone have any tips or advice on different ways I could approach this and initiate more often?

Thanks to anyone who helps!